Advice for Men: A Girl is Like a Bird

 A male reader emailed me recently with the following question: Dear Tinka, men who act like ‘Love Burglars’ you talked about, make things more difficult for the rest of us guys. Too many women, because of their own personal experiences, start out dating men with the presumption of guilt rather than innocence (especially if they don’t have a good relationship with their father or if their parents divorced because of…
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For Men: Finding the Woman You are Looking For

I got the following question from a reader. Below is my reply. Tinka, it would be great if you could share with us men, the flip side of the coin. How can men find the woman they have been looking for (and not the women who are overly materialistic and selfish)? Hopefully you will write an equally colorful and detail piece on that as well!” – L.L. (43), NYC Dear L.L.,…
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THE LOST ART OF DATING

We lost the ability to go out on a date expecting nothing. Most of us, when going out on a date, expect to at least find out whether we like the other person or not. We stopped understanding what dating is all about and no longer know how to date. Dating is not “Oh I fancy you, so now I want to have sex with you”. What is dating then, you ask? DATING IS ALL ABOUT THE RITUAL.  Here are…
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Love burglar

The Curious Case of Hit-and-Run L.O.V.E. Some consider it just a dating casualty, some think of it as a game of Ding-Dong-Ditch-it, and Kim Kardashian’s little bro Rob calls it, “Hit-it-and-Quit-it”. Sound familiar? Men may chuckle under their breath or smirk a bit at the notion, but every woman has a little pain, some scars and perhaps a few open wounds attached to this concept. Women experience sex followed by…
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Tinka’s Top 10 Tips for The Ladies

1.  Ladies, Allow a Man to be a Gentleman: You want to date a gentleman? Let him be one. Encourage him to be a gentleman and don’t accept ungentlemanly behavior. Relationships need to be nurtured. Good behavior needs to be rewarded. If he opens the door for you, thank him. Let him know you noticed. If on the other hand he is rude, react to his behavior by going home early…
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