Is He an Asset or Liability? Do the Math!

We do a balance sheet to determine the viability of a business, to assess potential investments, and to determine financial strategies. Business is business, right? Well, relationships are business too. It’s the business of our personal lives and overall really the most important business of our lives, because if that’s messed up – everything is messed up. How many times have you seen a successful professional or business person completely…
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How to Deal with PLAYERS w/out Getting Burned

A cute, smart, educated girl in her early 20’s recently asked me how do you deal with “Players”? It’s an interesting question. She wanted to know how to capture the heart of a player. BAD IDEA. She also wanted to know how NOT to develop emotions thus getting motored over by a Playboy/Pick-Up Artist. My answer is as follows: RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! That would be the preferred strategy. If…
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Can Older Woman/Younger Man Relationships Work?

Now that the quintessential Cougar/Cub couple Ashton & Demi are now defunct, does that mean older woman/younger man relationships are doomed? Anytime the subject came up or if someone you knew was in that kind of relationship, invariably Ashton and Demi would be used as an example of how it can work and work well. They were the Patron Saints of the Cougar Movement. Demi was the Queen Cougar…and she…
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Kim Kardashian Part II

After watching the new Kardashian episode, it all seems pretty clear. The whole thing was a great, giant scam. They put it on. It was an act. It was a business arrangement and Kris Humphries went for it for some reason, maybe because he’s a ball player who was without a team and had no current income and needed the money, who knows. Really, who moves their new husband in…
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Pizza Delivery

You know the scenario: You meet a guy, he likes you, you like him back. He wants to see you again, get to know you better, take you out. You want the same. Unfortunately you don’t live in the same country. He asks you to meet him on his or neutral territory, BUT does NOT offer to pay your transportation (read: airfare). You want to explore new options, meet him…
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