PASSIVE AMERICAN MALE COMMENT>>> Have you noticed American guys being passive and/or too timid to make a move or take the lead? And, mind you, when I say American Males, I am generally speaking of East and West coast men. Los Angeles and Manhattan. This won’t apply to Texas Cowboys or middle America men’s men [...]
Save the Marriage….Be Your Man’s Ho! Ho! Ho!
COMMENT>>> I have a gorgeous lovely girlfriend in her early 40s, married to a billionaire, living a fabulous jet setting life of luxury. They have a grown up kid. Sounds good so far, right? From the outside seems like a dream. Who wouldn’t want that kind of life? There is a backstory though. See, now [...]
Romance or Roommate?
COMMENT>>> I’ve got a girlfriend in NYC whose (now ex) boyfriend wanted her to move in with him. She liked him a lot, so she did. But even though he was making 3-4x more $$$ than she, he still wanted her to pay 50/50 for the rent, dinners, food, furniture, etc. She tried, and tried, [...]
The “SEDUCTION TACTICS” Scam
Ever heard of a book called THE GAME by Neil Strauss? If you are a man you have probably read it and most certainly heard of it. If you are a woman you may wonder what’s that? Or you may have heard of it and the mere mention of it makes your blood turn to [...]
Brain As The Most Important Sexual Organ…
…and The Role It Has In The L.O.V.E Addiction. COMMENT>> Ever been totally, flat out, OBSESSED with someone after the break up? So obsessed to the point of being completely incapacitated, debilitated, and effed up beyond recognition? Ever experienced a break up so horrendously painful or gone into a relationship with someone you KNOW is all [...]
Advice for Men: A Girl is Like a Bird
COMMENT>> A male reader emailed me recently with the following question: “Dear Tinka, men who act like ‘Love Burglars’ you talked about, make things more difficult for the rest of us guys. Too many women, because of their own personal experiences, start out dating men with the presumption of guilt rather than innocence (especially if [...]
THE LOST ART OF DATING
COMMENT>> We lost the ability to go out on a date expecting nothing. Most of us, when going out on a date, expect to at least find out whether we like the other person or not. We stopped understanding what dating is all about and no longer know how to date. Dating is not “Oh I fancy you, so now I want to [...]
LOVE BURGLAR
The Curious Case of Hit-and-Run L.O.V.E. COMMENT>> Some consider it just a dating casualty, some think of it as a game of Ding-Dong-Ditch-it, and Kim Kardashian’s little bro Rob calls it, “Hit-it-and-Quit-it”. Sound familiar? Men may chuckle under their breath or smirk a bit at the notion, but every woman has a little pain, some [...]
Tinka’s Top 10 Tips for The Ladies
COMMENT>> 1. Ladies, Allow a Man to be a Gentleman: You want to date a gentleman? Let him be one. Encourage him to be a gentleman and don’t accept ungentlemanly behavior. Relationships need to be nurtured. Good behavior needs to be rewarded. If he opens the door for you, thank him. Let him know you noticed. [...]
Top 10 Tips Every “Gentleman” Should Know
The Lost Art of Being a Gentleman COMMENT>> 1. Remember Courtship: Dating is an ART, not just a rush to get laid ASAP. Always keep this in mind! Dating should be like an enjoyable play, not a dreaded task. 2. Dial Back the Pomposity: Only talk about yourself when the lady asks. Don’t ramble on with unsolicited [...]
Dear Tinka: Thrifty Millionaires aka Tight-Wad Suitors
COMMENT Hello Tinka My girlfriend showed me your website, and finding your opinion close to ours I decided to ask you for advice. Shortly about me and my girlfriend. We work In the gentlemen club in NYC. One of the best ones and very nice one. We both are very sexy and nice ladies. And [...]
Boomerang Boyfriend: Why They Always Come Back?
COMMENT Why all exes at some point come back like a boomerang wanting another chance at relationship or to marry you? It reminds me of this old kids song called “The Cat Came Back” and the lyrics perfectly illustrate the ex-boyfriend that keeps coming back and comin’ back and comin’ back. No matter what you [...]
The Empress of Sensuality
I’m the Empress of Sensuality. Most people don’t have a clue about sensuality or any intimacy for that matter. The good news is that I understand that. I bring sensuality in my everyday life and it’s helped me get what I want out of life both in and out of relationships with both men and women. There’s [...]
Ms. Sensuality
Pick up any magazine, turn on the TV — everywhere you turn it’s all about being sexy. And that’s cool. But here’s a secret. Being sexy is for girls. A real woman knows how to be sensual and sexy. Anyone can throw on a short skirt, skimpy top, stripper heels and call herself sexy. But [...]
