Does He Want You On HIS Terms? Or Does He Love You but ONLY when it Suits Him? He twists women around and ties them in knots like pretzles. Jerking them in 10 different directions. Pulling them like taffy and laughing all the while. What he may not realize is Wishy-Washy men turn ugly in [...]
100 Days to London 2012 Olympics!
As NeuroVella INI Foundation Ambassador, it was my pleasure to attend 2012 USA Olympic Team Benefit Gala held in Newport Beach, California on April 18, 2012. To learn more about the exciting NeuroVella Institute of Neuro Innovation that supports the U.S. Olympians and which I am a proud patron of, please click here: http://www.inifoundation.org/ The [...]
Is He an Asset or Liability? Do the Math!
We do a balance sheet to determine the viability of a business, to assess potential investments, and to determine financial strategies. Business is business, right? Well, relationships are business too. It’s the business of our personal lives and overall really the most important business of our lives, because if that’s messed up – everything is [...]
TINKA Travelista
It’s mid January and I’m back in LA. I had my winter trip all planned out but ended up experiencing the unexpected adventure I could never have planned. Went to Sarajevo to see my folks, Dubai and Abu Dhabi to see a friend, Oman to experience its breathtaking nature, then Vienna for Christmas, and finally Kitzbühel, [...]
How to Deal with PLAYERS w/out Getting Burned
COMMENT>>> A cute, smart, educated girl in her early 20’s recently asked me how do you deal with “Players”? It’s an interesting question. She wanted to know how to capture the heart of a player. BAD IDEA. She also wanted to know how NOT to develop emotions thus getting motored over by a Playboy/Pick-Up Artist. [...]
Can Older Woman/Younger Man Relationships Work?
COMMENT>>> Now that the quintessential Cougar/Cub couple Ashton & Demi are now defunct, does that mean older woman/younger man relationships are doomed? Anytime the subject came up or if someone you knew was in that kind of relationship, invariably Ashton and Demi would be used as an example of how it can work and work [...]
Pizza Delivery
COMMENT You know the scenario: You meet a guy, he likes you, you like him back. He wants to see you again, get to know you better, take you out. You want the same. Unfortunately you don’t live in the same country. He asks you to meet him on his or neutral territory, BUT does [...]
Save the Marriage….Be Your Man’s Ho! Ho! Ho!
COMMENT>>> I have a gorgeous lovely girlfriend in her early 40s, married to a billionaire, living a fabulous jet setting life of luxury. They have a grown up kid. Sounds good so far, right? From the outside seems like a dream. Who wouldn’t want that kind of life? There is a backstory though. See, now [...]
Should You Give a Guy You’re Dating a Christmas Gift?
COMMENT>>> It’s the Christmas Spirit, the season of giving. Isn’t giving a gift what Christmas and New Year’s Eve are all about? The answer to that question is YES…BUT not an expensive one. I love giving gifts although it is a general consensus that women should NOT give gifts to men they are only dating because [...]
Romance or Roommate?
COMMENT>>> I’ve got a girlfriend in NYC whose (now ex) boyfriend wanted her to move in with him. She liked him a lot, so she did. But even though he was making 3-4x more $$$ than she, he still wanted her to pay 50/50 for the rent, dinners, food, furniture, etc. She tried, and tried, [...]
The “SEDUCTION TACTICS” Scam
Ever heard of a book called THE GAME by Neil Strauss? If you are a man you have probably read it and most certainly heard of it. If you are a woman you may wonder what’s that? Or you may have heard of it and the mere mention of it makes your blood turn to [...]
Brain As The Most Important Sexual Organ…
…and The Role It Has In The L.O.V.E Addiction. COMMENT>> Ever been totally, flat out, OBSESSED with someone after the break up? So obsessed to the point of being completely incapacitated, debilitated, and effed up beyond recognition? Ever experienced a break up so horrendously painful or gone into a relationship with someone you KNOW is all [...]
For Men: Finding the Woman You are Looking For
COMMENT>> I got the following question from a reader. Below is my reply. “……..Tinka, it would be great if you could share with us men, the flip side of the coin. How can men find the woman they have been looking for (and not the women who are overly materialistic and selfish)? Hopefully you will [...]
