Does He Want You On HIS Terms? Or Does He Love You but ONLY when it Suits Him? He twists women around and ties them in knots like pretzles. Jerking them in 10 different directions. Pulling them like taffy and laughing all the while. What he may not realize is Wishy-Washy men turn ugly in [...]
100 Days to London 2012 Olympics!
As NeuroVella INI Foundation Ambassador, it was my pleasure to attend 2012 USA Olympic Team Benefit Gala held in Newport Beach, California on April 18, 2012. To learn more about the exciting NeuroVella Institute of Neuro Innovation that supports the U.S. Olympians and which I am a proud patron of, please click here: http://www.inifoundation.org/ The [...]
Where Have All the Real Men Gone? The Weak American Male
PASSIVE AMERICAN MALE COMMENT>>> Have you noticed American guys being passive and/or too timid to make a move or take the lead? And, mind you, when I say American Males, I am generally speaking of East and West coast men. Los Angeles and Manhattan. This won’t apply to Texas Cowboys or middle America men’s men [...]
Ashton & Demi “Swing” Their Way Right into Divorce Court
DO OPEN MARRIAGES LIKE ASHTON AND DEMI’S REALLY WORK? Sources say Demi and Ashton had an “Open Marriage.” The gossip rags claim Demi is Bi and didn’t mind Ashton having flings as long as she knew about it and presumably he didn’t mind her being with other women, maybe other men, maybe threesomes, who knows… [...]
Is Hooking Up at the Office Christmas Party a Mistake? Or Amazing?
COMMENT>> It’s an age old situation. Anyone who has ever worked in an office where there was a Christmas party has experienced or witnessed someone hooking up with someone else. Maybe you have done it yourself. Back in the day of booze soaked office parties, people let loose a little, sometimes a little too much. [...]
Romance or Roommate?
COMMENT>>> I’ve got a girlfriend in NYC whose (now ex) boyfriend wanted her to move in with him. She liked him a lot, so she did. But even though he was making 3-4x more $$$ than she, he still wanted her to pay 50/50 for the rent, dinners, food, furniture, etc. She tried, and tried, [...]
The “SEDUCTION TACTICS” Scam
Ever heard of a book called THE GAME by Neil Strauss? If you are a man you have probably read it and most certainly heard of it. If you are a woman you may wonder what’s that? Or you may have heard of it and the mere mention of it makes your blood turn to [...]
Brain As The Most Important Sexual Organ…
…and The Role It Has In The L.O.V.E Addiction. COMMENT>> Ever been totally, flat out, OBSESSED with someone after the break up? So obsessed to the point of being completely incapacitated, debilitated, and effed up beyond recognition? Ever experienced a break up so horrendously painful or gone into a relationship with someone you KNOW is all [...]
Advice for Men: A Girl is Like a Bird
COMMENT>> A male reader emailed me recently with the following question: “Dear Tinka, men who act like ‘Love Burglars’ you talked about, make things more difficult for the rest of us guys. Too many women, because of their own personal experiences, start out dating men with the presumption of guilt rather than innocence (especially if [...]
For Men: Finding the Woman You are Looking For
COMMENT>> I got the following question from a reader. Below is my reply. “……..Tinka, it would be great if you could share with us men, the flip side of the coin. How can men find the woman they have been looking for (and not the women who are overly materialistic and selfish)? Hopefully you will [...]
THE LOST ART OF DATING
COMMENT>> We lost the ability to go out on a date expecting nothing. Most of us, when going out on a date, expect to at least find out whether we like the other person or not. We stopped understanding what dating is all about and no longer know how to date. Dating is not “Oh I fancy you, so now I want to [...]
Tinka’s Top 10 Tips for The Ladies
COMMENT>> 1. Ladies, Allow a Man to be a Gentleman: You want to date a gentleman? Let him be one. Encourage him to be a gentleman and don’t accept ungentlemanly behavior. Relationships need to be nurtured. Good behavior needs to be rewarded. If he opens the door for you, thank him. Let him know you noticed. [...]
Top 10 Tips Every “Gentleman” Should Know
The Lost Art of Being a Gentleman COMMENT>> 1. Remember Courtship: Dating is an ART, not just a rush to get laid ASAP. Always keep this in mind! Dating should be like an enjoyable play, not a dreaded task. 2. Dial Back the Pomposity: Only talk about yourself when the lady asks. Don’t ramble on with unsolicited [...]
