When I heard that First Ladies of Africa were meeting in Dubai at First Ladies Summit, I ventured out to
Strong Men Know What They Want. Weak Men are Wishy-Washy
Does He Want You On HIS Terms? Or Does He Love You but ONLY when it Suits Him? He twists women around and ties them in knots like pretzles. Jerking them in 10 different directions. Pulling them like taffy and laughing all the while. What he may not realize is Wishy-Washy men turn ugly in [...]
100 Days to London 2012 Olympics!
As NeuroVella INI Foundation Ambassador, it was my pleasure to attend 2012 USA Olympic Team Benefit Gala held in Newport Beach, California on April 18, 2012. To learn more about the exciting NeuroVella Institute of Neuro Innovation that supports the U.S. Olympians and which I am a proud patron of, please click here: http://www.inifoundation.org/ The [...]
Is He an Asset or Liability? Do the Math!
We do a balance sheet to determine the viability of a business, to assess potential investments, and to determine financial strategies. Business is business, right? Well, relationships are business too. It’s the business of our personal lives and overall really the most important business of our lives, because if that’s messed up – everything is [...]
Sarajevo Red Line
Sarajevo. April 6, 2012. 11,541 red empty chairs. One for each child, woman and man killed in Sarajevo alone during the longest siege in modern history. Today marks 20 years since the atrocious war in Bosnia-Herzegovina first started. Next 44 months of siege — longer than the World War II siege of Leningrad (St. Petersburg) – Sarajevo’s [...]
Get Ready, The Summer is Coming!
Or if you are somewhere exotic already, hope you are enjoying the sunny days! I love having designers from around the world send me their newest creations to parade around. This time my feet were in for a lovely surprise! What a feast! Oh-so-lavishly-comforatable-and-chic! Last weekend was a perfect summer day in Beverly Hills to [...]
How to Deal with PLAYERS w/out Getting Burned
COMMENT>>> A cute, smart, educated girl in her early 20’s recently asked me how do you deal with “Players”? It’s an interesting question. She wanted to know how to capture the heart of a player. BAD IDEA. She also wanted to know how NOT to develop emotions thus getting motored over by a Playboy/Pick-Up Artist. [...]
Tinka’s Birthday in Oman
Journey with TINKA – travelista, opera singer, TV star, recording artist, and adventurer extraordinaire – across the Globe as she
Can Older Woman/Younger Man Relationships Work?
COMMENT>>> Now that the quintessential Cougar/Cub couple Ashton & Demi are now defunct, does that mean older woman/younger man relationships are doomed? Anytime the subject came up or if someone you knew was in that kind of relationship, invariably Ashton and Demi would be used as an example of how it can work and work [...]
Kim Kardashian Part II
After watching the new Kardashian episode, it all seems pretty clear. The whole thing was a great, giant scam. They put it on. It was an act. It was a business arrangement and Kris Humphries went for it for some reason, maybe because he’s a ball player who was without a team and had no [...]
Pizza Delivery
COMMENT You know the scenario: You meet a guy, he likes you, you like him back. He wants to see you again, get to know you better, take you out. You want the same. Unfortunately you don’t live in the same country. He asks you to meet him on his or neutral territory, BUT does [...]
Alone for the Holidays
COMMENT>>> Alone for the holidays? Check. No date for New Years? Check. Another Thanksgiving, Christmas, NYE with all the people who have no partner and no family? Check. Admitting the problem is the first step to recovery, right? So what is it you are supposed to recover from at holidays alone? Do you start thinking, [...]
Happy Birthday to Me!
Thank you all for your kind bday wishes; means a lot and truly touches my heart! So thankful! I must be the luckiest lady in the woooorld!! Thaaaank You Love, -Tinka
Where Have All the Real Men Gone? The Weak American Male
PASSIVE AMERICAN MALE COMMENT>>> Have you noticed American guys being passive and/or too timid to make a move or take the lead? And, mind you, when I say American Males, I am generally speaking of East and West coast men. Los Angeles and Manhattan. This won’t apply to Texas Cowboys or middle America men’s men [...]
Ashton & Demi “Swing” Their Way Right into Divorce Court
DO OPEN MARRIAGES LIKE ASHTON AND DEMI’S REALLY WORK? Sources say Demi and Ashton had an “Open Marriage.” The gossip rags claim Demi is Bi and didn’t mind Ashton having flings as long as she knew about it and presumably he didn’t mind her being with other women, maybe other men, maybe threesomes, who knows… [...]
Save the Marriage….Be Your Man’s Ho! Ho! Ho!
COMMENT>>> I have a gorgeous lovely girlfriend in her early 40s, married to a billionaire, living a fabulous jet setting life of luxury. They have a grown up kid. Sounds good so far, right? From the outside seems like a dream. Who wouldn’t want that kind of life? There is a backstory though. See, now [...]
Is Hooking Up at the Office Christmas Party a Mistake? Or Amazing?
COMMENT>> It’s an age old situation. Anyone who has ever worked in an office where there was a Christmas party has experienced or witnessed someone hooking up with someone else. Maybe you have done it yourself. Back in the day of booze soaked office parties, people let loose a little, sometimes a little too much. [...]